Lois and Mac. Also known as Grandma and Bobo.
August 29, 2010: 
My grandmother, Lois Larson, grew up in Mandan, North Dakota. She was beautiful. Tall, strong, and she must have also been smart as the family figured out how to send her to nursing school in Chicago.
 
When I was six, I rode a train from St Louis to Mandan with my grandmother. It was the great adventure of my young life. We were on the train for two days. When we arrived in Mandan there were real Indians in full ceremonial garb, dancing and beating tom-toms to greet the train. My great grandmother met us too and whisked us to the wonderful house my grandma grew up in.
 
While my Grandma Lois was in nursing school in Chicago she met and fell in love with the dashing Issac MacMillian Hunter. Known as Mac, he was tall, dark and handsome. He could be the most charming, engaging man you ever met. He must have been bowled over by my leggy Swedish grandma.


Mac, or as I called him, Bobo, was from down around Sikeston, Missouri. His father owned farms there but wanted his four boys to be educated in the "city", so he moved them to Cape. He might have been the first commuter. He drove to the farms everyday from Cape to work.  

Right after the honeymoon, Grandma and Mac moved to Cape Girardeau. They moved in with the in-laws, all living in the same great big Victorian house overlooking the Mississippi River. This house has been preserved and taken care of by the Cape Girardeau Historical Society and is open for tours. It is called The Glenn House. It is the site of my mother's birth AND my wedding reception.
So you can see why it is historical!
 
I can only imagine how hard it was for my Swedish grandmother to move from frosty North Dakota to steamy, humid southeast Missouri, into her mother-in–law’s house.
 
Mac was the first manager of the Cape bridge which connected Missouri to southern Illinois over the mighty Mississippi River.

Photos of the old bridge when it was new from Grandma's scrapbook.



Mac managed the maintenance of this important hunk of steel and concrete. It was the thinnest, scariest bridge I have ever seen. One little move of the wheel to the right or left was potential death by either a car crash or a dive into the muddy, racing Mississippi. The old bridge was blown up in 2004 after a new beautifully wide one was built just down river.

Mac and Lois got divorced. It was almost unheard of for anyone to get divorced in those days.  But as charming as Mac could be, he was also an alcoholic. Life with him was no longer bearable. 
 
Lois, with her Chicago nursing degree, went to work. She worked at the hospital, a doctor's office and for a few years she was the school nurse at May Green Elementary School. She worked the whole rest of her life. She supported herself and my mother. She saved money and left a small inheritance.

She was funny and eccentric. She enthralled us as children with North Dakota stories about getting shot with arrows by Indians (it was actually her vaccination scar)  and walking to school holding a hot hard cooked egg to keep her hands from freezing. She then ate the egg for lunch! 

Whenever I was sick, she did the sensible nurse thing and brought me a chocolate milk shake from Sunny Hill.
 
I miss her.
Posted: August 26, 2010 by Blondie | with 2 comments


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Blondie commented on 9/3/2010 10:37:38 AM
Beth,
Consider it done!!
In the event of my untimely death, he is all yours!

Blondie

beth commented on 9/3/2010 10:30:44 AM
grandmothers are the best. i had a granny, she passed away in 1993 and I still miss her terribly. I was blessed with a little girl and promptly named her Millie in honor of my granny.
thanks for your posts, they are enjoyable.

ps - i have to confess to having a terrible crush on boblee, i would love it if you bequeathed him to me in your will. :-)

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